Homosexual curious freinds
opinion CORA NOLAFriday, March 22, 2019 11:04:43 PM
Why do I have such a strong curiosity about sex with another man? Schwartz intends his responses to provide general educational information to the readership of this website; answers should not be understood to be specific advice intended for any particular individual s.
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Thank you for sending in this question because it provides me an opportunity to discuss a topic that disturbs many people and I hope the answers will help both you and them. Many decades ago Sigmund Freud made the observation that all human beings begin Homosexual curious freinds with a bisexual orientation and there is no reason to believe that he was incorrect.
In fact, inutero during the first trimester all fetuses are female.
Later, long after birth and growth latency age children approximately ages 5 to 11 years old engage in some homosexual play. Same age children will fondle Homosexual curious freinds another, compare genitals, and even masturbate together. This is true of both boys and girls.
During early adolescence boys will have the proverbial "pissing contests" to see whose stream is longest. Even more starkly, some boys will have what is referred to as a "circle jerk" during which the boys will compete to see who masturbates Homosexual curious freinds fastest and ejaculates the farthest.
All of this is a form of homosexual interest. Even Homosexual curious freinds, during young adulthood, people will have an erotic interest in same sex activities. It is not unusual for some men and more women to experiment with homosexuality for a brief period of time and then go on to be completely heterosexual. None of this means that an individual is homosexual.
I do not know how old you are but there is an excellent chance that your interest is nothing more than a passing interest or some pleasure in fantasy.